Today’s question has two parts. To answer the first part, you might need to be of a certain minimal age, but what that age should be, I won’t say. Anyway, the question is this: how many of you have ever made a “Novena?” The second part should be a lot easier for many of you. How many of you know what a “novena” is? Well, that tells me how many of you have been reading the Christ the Good Shepherd Bulletin for the last three weeks. Each issue has had an insert about the novena now being held here every night at 7 o’clock.
A novena is a nine-day period for a devotional practice. It can be nine days taken together for prayer and meditation, or it can be nine days over an extended period of time. Going to church on the first Friday of nine consecutive months was once a very popular devotional practice.
Now, if you’ve been reading our Sunday Bulletin, you should know what the source of this nine-day period is. You should recall that the original novena is the nine-day interval between the Ascension, which we celebrated last Thursday, and Pentecost, which we’ll celebrate next Sunday. It’s the nine days when the disciples waited for the coming of the Holy Spirit.
In today’s first reading from the Acts of the Apostles, we learn of one major event that occurred during this original novena: the selection of Matthias to replace Judas Iscariot and return the number of disciples to Twelve. We heard how the 120 followers of Christ selected two of them, Joseph Barsabbas, also called, the Just, and Matthias, and after praying over them, allowed God to choose which one would be counted among the Twelve Apostles.
The followers of Jesus recognized they were in a time of transition. Their Lord had physically left them. He had promised to send them another Paraclete, a counselor, a companion, who would be sent by the Father. They hoped, also, for the return of Jesus, himself, for his Second Coming. They wanted to be prepared for his return. We, too, now exist in a similar transition. We are between the celebration of the Ascension and of Pentecost. We, too, are between the First Coming of Jesus the Christ and his Second Coming. At the same time, we are between many other transitions in our own lives, for after all, a transition is that period between any two events.
With the approach of spring, many look forward to graduation from high school or college, and the beginning of a new life. Others look forward to a spring or summer wedding and the transition from a single life to one united with a beloved spouse. Some await moves to new locations, new homes, new jobs. Still others expect new births, while some anticipate deaths of loved ones. All of us experience, in one way or another, the process of merely getting older, and a few, the hope of getting wiser. Each one of us is in a transition: somewhere between the known past and the unknown future.
And so the real question is: what should we be doing here and now in our “novena,” our nine days of waiting? How do we cope with our transitions? Perhaps, one way would be to recognize that this weekend we celebrate Mothers’ Day, and to take a closer look at two aspects of being a mother.
Of course there are many ways to look at motherhood. I’m going to limit myself to two characteristics I came across in a recent issue of the Jesuit magazine, America. The April 26th issue of America has an article written by Carole Garibaldi Rogers. She’s a freelance journalist who has also written a recent book entitled: Poverty, Chastity and Change: Lives of Contemporary American Nuns.
In her article in America, she reports on interviews with several nuns who are also mothers. Just like Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, who was a mother before she founded the Sisters of Charity, these women had raised their own families before joining a religious community. In her article, Carole Rogers stresses two characteristics of these women who are biological mothers and religious sisters. She quotes one of the women, Patricia Galli, as saying: “What I’ve learned about parenting, especially about being a mother, is that your role from the time they’re born is to let them go.” The author also wrote about another woman, Marion Farrell, who “…spoke often about persevering.”
When I read this article, it reminded me that these two characteristics of motherhood, “letting go” and “persevering,” are also characteristics of the disciples of Jesus some two thousand years ago. They are, also, two of the major graces each one of us needs during our own times of transition.
The disciples were called upon to let go of the risen Christ, physically, and, yet, to persevere in their belief in his presence with them. We, too, are asked with each transition, to let go of things, of events, and of people, who bind us to the past and prevent our going on to the future. And we, too, are encouraged to persevere, which does not mean holding on to the past with both hands, but rather, to tough it out in the present and move towards new hope for the future. We are called towards “letting go” and towards “persevering,”
And what gives us the ability to let go and to persevere? An answer may be found in the other readings we heard today. In our gospel reading, we heard Jesus speak about how he, himself, had guarded and kept watch over his friends. And now, when he must let go of them, and they must let go of him, he asks his Father to guard them from evil. He does not ask his Father to remove them from this world in order to protect them, but rather, to make them holy and send them out into the world. Jesus prays for the consecration of his friends and for our consecration, our being made holy, so we, too, can let go and be sent forth into the world.
In our second reading from John’s letter to his friends, we, also, hear how this consecration, this letting go and this sending forth, is accomplished. We hear, once more, how: “God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God and God in them.” To abide is to live in, to reside in, to rest in, to take comfort in. Just as we “abide: in our home, our place of refuge and of nurturing, we are to “abide” in God and God is to “abide” in us. We are to rest in the arms of God, just as in the arms of our mother. And just as we embrace our own mother in our arms, we are to hold God tightly in our own arms. It is in this act of abiding in one another, us in God and God in us, that we gain the courage to let go and to persevere, not only in the nine days of our novena but in each and every day of the life we share with God and with one another.
Seventh Sunday of Easter; May 12, 1997 (Mother’s Day)
Acts: 1:15 -17, 20a, 209c-26; 1 Jn 4:11-16; Jn 17:11b-19