Dear Friends,
It is good to reflect once a year on the joys and un-joys of the past twelve months. The world events of prior years have been replaced by new ones: no longer Bosnia and Y2K, but rather Crimea, Ukraine, ISIS, and Ebola! Yet the personal joys of family continue to outweigh the secular crises surrounding us. Once more, in this season’s faith, we will survive and prosper.
Our year began with an interesting event: in January, at the annual Clergy Night dinner, Pat received an award from the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston in recognition of his devotion to vocations as a Permanent Deacon. (In February he celebrated the 30th anniversary of his ordination.) The year “ended” with another award for him: the Centennial Award from Kent State University’s College of EHHS for his career in Education, Health, and Human Services, which is presented to alumni who graduated over 50 years ago. (Two years ago the award was given to one of his Delta Upsilon fraternity brothers: Lou Holtz.) This presentation prompted us to visit KSU, Niles, Sandusky (and Pittsburgh!) in October to see friends, relatives and fall foliage.
We did not engage in any foreign travel this year … given our growing discomfort with long flights and European political concerns. Karen’s chronic pains with her shoulder joints (one of which was replaced a year ago) also add to our decreased travel schedule. The replaced knees are fine, except for security scans!
We continue to cut back our previous commitments to Christ the Good Shepherd, where Pat is “semi-retired but still active”, to the Cenacle Retreat House, where Karen is also “semi-retired but still active,” and to Eagle’s Trace where we are both “semi-retired but still active” in bible study, instruction, preaching, praying, and singing.
The next generation is not “semi-retired” but very active in the continuation of what they have been doing in previous years: Debbie as branch manager of a library in San Antonio, Frank as a math instructor in an SA community college; Ken (with United Recovery Systems) and Tracey with still-at-home Christina (in junior college), Thomas, Victoria, Olivia, Damien, Joseph (all in home-schooling) and Gabriel, the youngest. Chris continues as an assistant principle at The Woodlands’ ninth grade campus and Kelly is a math teacher at Klein Oak High School.
The latest generation is undertaking their new beginnings. Jordan, recently engaged to Samantha Gatlin, is a manager with Pioneer Grill and Saloon in College Station and continues to perform his gigs locally. Dillon is with the Harris County Public Health and Environmental Services and Carolyn is a groomer with Willow Creek Ranch in Tomball. Kirby, a recent UT-Austin graduate and a marketing coordinator with LGI Homes, will be married to Stephen Whitworth on 3/14/15 (pi day!) Kennedy is continuing her studies for pediatric nursing.
We continue to enjoy what we do and when we do it! Formal retirement is to our liking. We maintain it is much like our lives before; except now we can say “no” and not feel guilty. All we need to do is say “no” more often. Our health remains “above average;” our friends seem to offer more “organ recitals” than we do. There is little to complain about; community food may become boring at times, but we did not need to prepare it. And when we listen to winter weather reports from other parts
of the country, we believe that Houston may be as good as it can get … except for the color of the leaves in autumn.
We wish you peace, tranquility, and good health. May the spirit of this holy season be with you, once more and forever.
Celebration
What do we celebrate when we gather at Christmas?
Is it a tiny baby surrounded by parents, shepherds, creatures and kings?
Is it the opportunity to visit with family and friends?
Is it the joy of opening gifts and in giving them?
Is it the scent of pine and the sight of beautifully decorated homes?
Is it the shiver of excitement while waiting for Santa Claus?
Is it the beauty of midnight mass?
Is it the sound of Christmas carols ringing through the night air?
Is it all of these? None of these?
“And the word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.”
That is my celebration – that God loved us so much that he became one of us.
All of the other reasons to celebrate are still there.
I enjoy each one of them every year, but the Incarnation takes my breath away.
Maranatha. Come, Lord Jesus, come.
It is Christmas once again.
Karen Camerino, 2014
Thanksgiving
When I was a child, I loved these things about Thanksgiving Day:
Driving to Grandma’s – singing all the way
Stuffing myself with turkey, dressing, gravy, mashed potatoes and pie
Running up the hill and down again to the river
Seeing all of my aunts, uncles and cousins
Driving home tired and happy
I love these things about Thanksgiving Day now:
Seeing my children and grandchildren
Remembering all the years gone by
Realizing all the wonderful things God has given me
Having Pat by my side, loving me
Yes, the feast, too
I thank God every day for being relatively pain-free.
I thank God every day for the people who have loved me.
I thank God every day for my faith.
I thank God every day for my friends and wise teachers.
Yes, in reality, every day is Thanksgiving Day.
Pilgrims and turkey are just an added bonus.
Karen Camerino, 2014